Long Distance Relationship? I Can Survive!!

Long Distance Relationship? I Can Survive!!

I Can SURVIVE This Long Distance Relationship

I’m sure 99,9% of us ever have some doubt about this. Yeah!! This is long distance relationship, moreover with foreign that now he/she is our beloved one. Of course, everything we need is to sacrifice for that. Can we stand with LDR for so long? I know, it’s not an easy thing to deal with. Don’t say that LDR is so much hard, it will burden us more then. Just take it easy so, we’ll be ok though we miss our love a lot cause we can’t always meet him/her everyday. LDR isn’t easy but it’s possible. J

Once we decide to be in LDR, we must ready with all the consequences. Time, distance, cost, and culture are the barrier. Connection of the heart, commitment, and loyality are the things we need to survive for LDR. The most important with all that, we can survive our loved one.

We know, no relation has no problem. Including LDR, it’s complicated a lot I think. But we can get through of that. J So many things we can do to get survive for LDR and for him/her. Both sides must do this to make the relation is great and has no ends.

These are what we can do to survive our precious LDR:

1.   Stay Positive

          I think it’s the most important to do for enjoying LDR. With stay positive, our heart will feel free like we don’t have burden. Also, our lung will get more space to get fresh air for our mind. So, aal iz well. J

          I know what’s there in our brain, one of a piece of that is our negative thinking. We need to have no rooms for these thoughts in long distance relationship. Kick them out! J and yeah, distance our self from all negative people, so that there will be no talking bad about our couple and something bad else. LDR had enough stress inside, don’t let someone else dump their stress.

2.   Talk, Talk, Talk, Talk, Talk, and Talking more

No long term of relationship without talk. So, let’s get in touch. We need to talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, and talk some more with our couple. Umm…Just say hi, tell what happen in you, and many more. Be open with our couple, just talk and has no secret. It will strengthen long distance relationship. Our talking or chat will wipe all of our worry about our couple and this LDR.

3.   Have a Plan

Being together forever is the aim for LDR. Some plans we must have to achieve that aim. For example, we arrange budget for meeting, scheduling meeting time, planned to meet each other, give some gifts when dating, get closer and closer to know more about each other, meet our family, engaged, get married, have babies, and etc…etc… yeah! we must have plans, short term plans and long term plans.

Our meeting will be a happiness part in our life history, but an airport goodbye feels hurtful. Believing that we’ll meet our couple and be happy together forever then we’ll forget our sadness. Keep spirit!! J

4.   Get a Life

We need to get our life. Of course we ever get stress in this LDR. We must avoid it, we can do something to cherish our heart though our love is there and we can’t grab him/her now.

          We must be an independent one, by working, schooling, do our hobbies. That’s fun, and don’t do any crazy thing to kill our precious relation. Imagine…we’ll be together after these months of missing each other, our long distance lover.

5.   Stay Connected

It’s not about internet and all, but it’s about our loved one that separated so far to us. Staying connected heart-to-heart is instrumental to the success of LDR.

          Make sure our self his/her heart is connected to you only. He/her will not break this connection with us as long as we don’t break it with our thoughts and attitude that will make him/her don’t get comfort.

Did you survive a long distance relationship?